Accepting New Clients!
As a therapist, these are things that I hear every day from women who want a long term relationship but feel themselves stuck in the whirlwind of today’s dating pool or yet another situationship. I hear so often about singles (or “it’s complicated”s) slipping back into unhelpful patterns when facing so much chaos and hopelessness in their dating lives.
If you’re tired of the red-flags and chaos, exhausted by how much you give to those who don’t think twice about you, and totally over the toxic on-again off-again no-good-for-you-but-you-can’t-resist-situationship: let’s do the work.
I can help you explore and change the patterns you find yourself falling into. It’s not easy, and it’s not a quick fix, but little by little we will build your confidence so you don’t accept less than you deserve. We’ll strengthen your communication skills and boundaries so you can share your feelings in an assertive, respectful way. We will manage anxiety that comes with dating, so that you have some sort of control when chaos creeps up again.
We will work together to empower you, to uncover a sense of agency over the ups and downs of your romantic life. Although your therapist can’t change what fish are available in the sea, we can work together to drive your boat and cast your net with intention.